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Tuesday, January 7, 2014

Book Review: Wages of Love

Title:      WAGES OF LOVE – Uncollected Writings of Kamala Das
Author:   Kamala Das
Editor:    Suresh Kohli
Publi:      Harper Collins India
ISBN:      978-93-5029-723-0
MRP:       Rs 299/-
Pages:     176
Year:       2013


‘The rain is on our lips,
We do not run for prize.
But the storm the water whips
And the wave howls to the skies.
The winds arise and strike it
And scatter it like sand,
And we run because we like it
Through the broad bright land.’
                     
  -Charles Hamilton Sorley, ‘The Song of the Ungirt Runners’

When Sorley wrote these lines, of course he did not have Kamala Das on his mind, but they seem to suit her persona perfectly! Das never tried to hide her true emotions or wore a mask, and presented the reality blatantly. She was truthful about her affairs and very critical of the double standards of the society. Born to a top corporate executive father and a writer mother, she was connected to the royal family of Kerala as well. She spent her childhood in Kolkata and Kerala and was married at the age of 16 to a much older, rich man. 

Her writing drips with pain and grim realities of lives of women esp. of those trapped in bad and loveless marriages. Das, in her lifetime sparked many controversies. From entering politics, refuting Khushwant Singh’s accusations that she spread rumors of her Nobel nomination in 1984, to the biggest one about her conversion to Islam at the age of 65. She openly admitted a sexual relationship with a much younger Islamic Scholar for whose love, she embraced Islam. Later she lamented this decision, again, very openly. She died in 2009 at the age of 75. 

When I came across this book, it caught my attention instantly. I was really keen on reading books by the famous feminist ‘enigma’ known as Kamala Das! The book has been edited by Suresh Kohli, a Delhi based author and critic and is divided into three parts- Fiction, Non-Fiction and Poetry. Apart from a few short stories, most of the fiction is in the form of small plays. ‘A Week with Mansi’ is a story of a secret affair between a married woman and a young politician. The play, ‘Why Make the Baby Cry?’ shows the insensitivity of a husband towards his wife lying on deathbed. ‘Neipayasam’ is a touching story about a father’s struggle to manage his young children after his wife’s sudden death. ‘We Have Been Really Lucky’ surprisingly, has a positive message and is quite inspiring. The stories and plays are enjoyable, no doubt.

I found the next section the most interesting. In Non-Fiction, Das has expressed her views on various matters in compact, to-the-point style. In ‘Body Is a Mere Container’ she writes about her depression after her husband’s death, when she wanted to hang herself. Her meeting with Arundhati Roy in ‘Talking of Arundhati Roy’ and in ‘Thoughts On Sahitya Akademi’ she openly condemns Akademi’s retrograde stance and reluctance to bring in freshness in literature. The most enjoyable is ‘Indigestion and Hospitality’ wherein she describes how Indians like to torture their guests in the name of hospitality.

Her poetry is really stirring as she writes mostly on social topics relating to haplessness of women. Basically, Das was a hardcore feminist and every word of her is tinted with this view. The poem ‘Temples’ is really haunting. It describes the despicable conditions of old widows. Other poems too, are worth reading.

Her work is explicit in parts, reflects contempt for society and distrust for men. Das was anything but a hypocrite and presented naked truth in her usual, no-holds-barred style. I liked this book and I think it is a good read.

16 comments:

  1. I have not read Kamala Das's books but have read about her thoughts and life. This looks like an interesting book!

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    1. Hi Shilpa

      ok. Ya this book is interesting!

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  2. Kamala Das was a controversial figure in the sense she was ahead of her times writing stories of lust and love boldly and by being brutally frank about her life.People read her stories with relish privately.As a writer she commanded great admiration but invited controversies that she cared little about.
    A good review .

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    1. Hello KP Sir

      Yes, she was very controversial as she was quite open about her personal life. Thank you!

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  3. Thank you for the review of 'Wages of Love', I have read some of Kamala Das's popular poems, she is very bold and fearless in her expression! She went through a lot of ups and downs in her life and yes marriage at a tender age changed her and most of her writings explain about the struggles she underwent!

    Nice review Ankita, keep writing more, take care :)

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    1. Hi Sai

      thanks a lot! I am happy you liked the review :)
      I love her poems! yes, her marriage changed her view for relationships.

      Thanks!

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  4. Thanks for the excellent review. I know Kamala Das's life story. Will read this book. One thing in her book is right. Indians torturing their guests in the name of hospitality. For example, when someone goes to an American's home for a party, he would offer drinks. If the guest says he does not drink alcohol, they will immediately ask if he would like to have coke or orange juice. It is a different matter if someone goes to an Indian's home for a party. If the guest stays he does not drink alcohol, the host will push the alcohol on him. "Come on yaar". "one drink yaar for company sake". "you are spoiling the party". "are you afraid of your wife".

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    1. Hi SG

      Thanks a lot! I am really glad u liked this review. I was about to buy 'My Story' but then read somewhere that Das herself admitted later that there was a lot of fiction in that book. So I dropped the idea.

      This is a major issue with Indians. To show their love and affection, they literally force food down your throat and this 'afraid of wife' taunt is the most common. such people make me sick.

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  5. I am eager to read this book will try in my library..havent read any of hers..

    Agree to what SG says..its really exasperating in India..this insistence for everything .be it food, drinks or anything else...

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    1. Hi Renu

      yes, I am sure you won't be disappointed. yes, I agree fully with SG too.

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  6. How did I never read any of her books!

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    1. Hi Red

      you can read them now!

      :)

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  7. Thanks for the review, Ankita! It sounds so interesting, I will check it out. I love to get book recommendations! Have a fantastic weekend!

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    1. Hi Katrin

      I am really happy you enjoyed the review! Thanks a lot :)

      Thanks! you have a great weekend too!

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