I
have always believed that an imbalanced life is what makes one unhappy and
sullen. Finding and also maintaining a balance between work and play is the
key. This balance is required in everything we have and do like our homes and
social circle.
What
makes me happy is a small tea party with friends. I love to call my friends
over to my place or go over to theirs and enjoy simple tea with local snacks
like samosas, pakoras and bread rolls. The playful banter and chit-chat
gives us immense pleasure that can never be found in a fine formal dinner at
some high-profile 5-star. The personal bonding makes life worth looking forward
to. We often go for walks and crack jokes with each other. Two of my friends
have pets. The dogs are just so awesome and I love cuddling them and now they
too have become a part of our chai-party group! Animals have always
acquired a special place in my heart and I love playing with them. Little
squirrels and birds and cats as well amuse me no end and their careful and alert
expressions make me giggle and smile all the way.
The
biggest joys lie in smallest of emotions and things. After working from morning
to evening six days a week, I get a free Sunday that I lovingly call my
‘indulgence day’. I often stay at home and read my favorite books or write
something. Decorating home also makes me happy. I think for one’s happiness
these two things are must- good friends and good books!
A
moment spent in the lap of nature, and by nature I do not mean lush green hills
high in some fancy hill station but your own garden or any well maintained park,
moment spent in the company of a friend or self makes the day! We do not need a
reason to celebrate if one is happy and feels rooted and balanced from inside;
after all, happiness is like Musk- it is very well inside us and we do not have
to run here and there for it. It is more of a state of mind. A small tea party,
an hour spent cuddling my neighbor’s pet dog (I do not own one), spending time caring for my kitchen garden and gorging on
homemade snacks are enough to make me feel huge celebrations and festivals can
sometimes seem unnecessary compared to the moment that is still there and full
dripping with joy!!
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Thanks a lot Sir! :D
ReplyDeleteExcellent post. As you correctly pointed out, happiness is a state .of mind.
ReplyDeleteHi SG
DeleteThanks a lot!! indeed :)
After reading your post, I want to call my friends over for tea and buy few plants to tend them. :)
ReplyDeleteHi Saru
Deleteis it! then just give them a ring! :D
It is these little joys in small things that abound us makes life enjoyable.Many miss this in the hurry burry and blame the lack of time.It is good to note you are able to relish these welcome diversions.
ReplyDeleteHello Nana
DeleteThanks a lot! I am happy you liked the post
:)
How I agree to this..good friends and books...yes even I think so..I do my walking with a friend and I look forward to that half an hour in the evening:)
ReplyDeleteHi Renu
DeleteThanks! yes, such walks are so cathartic!
Aww, your friend's dogs sound adorable. I can imagine how much fun it is to hang out with them!
ReplyDeleteHi Katrin
Deleteyes, very much :)
Wonderful stuff, Thank you.
ReplyDeleteHi Christina
DeleteThanks a lot! :)