The
moment we hear the word ‘Diwali’ three things cross our minds: diyas
(oil lamps), sweets and crackers. I would love to share a small incident here
that happened more than a decade back but changed my perception in a huge way.
I was in standard 8th that time and like all my other friends, was
very excited about this forthcoming festival. I was never interested in or have
been very fond of sweets but always expected my parents to buy me crackers,
even if the total bill was enviable and they, out of love, complied. Days
before Diwali night, I and my friends (who fell into my group of
over-enthusiastic cracker-maniacs) would begin in the evening, after completing
the homework and all and continued till our tired parents called us for supper.
One
fine day an NGO visited my school to gather funds to save some child labors from
a firework factory in Sivakasi. It was an entirely official visit and we
students were not asked to donate any funds or anything to that NGO. However,
they insisted on having an interactive session with students. Hence, batches
were given dates and one day our turn too arrived. Just like any 8th
grader, I sat in the room, bored, along with my friends but when they began the
entire thing, it soon absorbed us and kept us hooked to every syllable they
uttered. They showed us some real life photographs of utterly miserable and
disabled kids with decomposed limbs and some grave injuries, who, as if stared
at us from those pictures with questioning eyes. One man in the group also told
us how small children as young as four years old are admitted to fireworks
factories, are picked up by dedicated buses and are made to work for long hours in
suffocating and dingy rooms where supervisors behaved with them in the most
inhuman way. The images were really horrifying and the entire scene was made much
clearer by the people representing that NGO.
Within
a week after their visit, one fine morning, at the assembly time, our
headmistress addressed us all and requested us to take an oath and honestly,
that one oath changed my Diwalis to come for ever. The oath was not to
buy crackers to contribute in saving the kids, since when buying stops, their
torture will gradually stop too. Also, to give us a moment of fun, there are hundreds
of children who risk their lives and lose their limbs and become crippled for
life at such a young age. I feel proud of myself that I took that oath
seriously have not bought a single firework after that and this decision made my
parents proud too!
Diwali
is a celebration of bonds and happiness and not enjoying to hilt at someone’s
misfortune. Now, I have been noticing that from the last few years, the use of
fireworks has been on a decline and that many children have been rescued from
such hell-hole factories by active NGOs.
The
best Diwali is the one that is celebrated with friends and gharwallas
and
those members that are away for some reasons like jobs etc. rather than by lighting crackers mindlessly in one corner. This year, spread love and just
give your beloveds a call to tell them how much you miss them! Spread cheer and not noise and pollution!
Happy Diwali!
Visit www.gharwalidiwali.com for pleasant surprises!!
Also,
check out this cute video!
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Happy Ghar Wali Diwali :D
ReplyDeleteHi Amrit
DeleteThank you and same to you!!
:D
I love to learn about your culture, Ankita! Thanks for sharing this! You did a great job! I do not like fireworks at all.
ReplyDeleteHi Katrin
DeleteThanks a lot! I am really glad that you do not like fireworks :)