tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post4591742587166599595..comments2023-10-30T05:53:10.386-07:00Comments on HUMMING WORDS: Brains In The DrainsAnkita http://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.comBlogger47125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-43889858589240560992013-02-08T22:22:17.438-08:002013-02-08T22:22:17.438-08:00hi,
But we must put a stop to this wastage...Educ...hi,<br /><br />But we must put a stop to this wastage...Education is I feel, never a waste..not using the skills is the real wastageAnkita https://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-51012074684279354052013-02-08T20:32:12.229-08:002013-02-08T20:32:12.229-08:00It is my personal opinion that any education after...It is my personal opinion that any education after 8th standard is a WASTE in India. This point is only reinforced by the kind of 'careers' we get. A nation being a 'back-office' of the world is not exactly a proud thing. <br /><br />In such circumstances, since we are not exactly doing any cutting-edge research, it is fine if the degrees are wasted. I mean, there was never anything valuable there to waste in the first place. <br /><br />Destination InfinityDestination Infinityhttp://www.destinationinfinity.org/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-32465162541519723052012-05-29T08:33:49.034-07:002012-05-29T08:33:49.034-07:00hii R Ramesh!
M here only, was a bit caught up in...hii R Ramesh!<br /><br />M here only, was a bit caught up in mundane things .. hehe.. will come soon! How are things at your end?ASnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-39786784186486884922012-05-28T08:35:32.791-07:002012-05-28T08:35:32.791-07:00thanks again:) n where r u long time no cthanks again:) n where r u long time no cR. Rameshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00314470449340373184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-40603096115279346342012-05-23T08:17:52.452-07:002012-05-23T08:17:52.452-07:00hii R Ramesh
:)hii R Ramesh<br /><br />:)AShttp://www.hummingwords.blogspot.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-17962671884904110502012-05-22T09:20:10.847-07:002012-05-22T09:20:10.847-07:00Hi:) thanks:)Hi:) thanks:)R. Rameshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00314470449340373184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-45807410273446064832012-05-17T21:14:39.497-07:002012-05-17T21:14:39.497-07:00What is not a "skill" tell me... just be...What is not a "skill" tell me... just because we don't 'pay' for certain skills, lets not underestimate certain skills only these Maas and Bahus are capable of exhibiting. The choice of the primary role I think is left to the woman and I think she will know best what choice to make based upon her circumstance which none of us who criticize will understand. Skilled professional, non professional, professional-whatever, underneath all those masks rests a plain, simple woman who probably responds to her baby's cry and her in-laws call and finds it far above all the criticisms that we easily lash. She rises above all of us. There are plenty who can take over her professional role in the corporate world's rat race and in the urban jungle yet none to replace her in her home which she cares with an instinct only she can have. Let her be that woman she wants to be...Fredjeevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10409347631422604384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-59370316523174289872012-05-16T02:38:52.562-07:002012-05-16T02:38:52.562-07:00hii VST
Thanks for a thoughtful comment!
Nothing ...hii VST<br /><br />Thanks for a thoughtful comment!<br />Nothing can be foolish than en educated girl leaving her career to become a full time 'bahu' or 'maa'. Housewives are the spine of the society but here I am talking esp regarding skilled professionals.Ankita https://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-79714249105108758132012-05-10T22:37:06.383-07:002012-05-10T22:37:06.383-07:00I think we are talking about choices here. To do o...I think we are talking about choices here. To do or not to do-to be or not to be. Somewhere down the line, I stopped pitying these women. They have no reason whatsoever to blame anyone for the choices they make. If they make a choice, it is theirs; and if they accept the choice made for them, it is once again theirs... so who is to be blamed really?! <br />I think what Jyothi says is right "Being a housewife doesn't mean she is not contributing to the community in any way." Just because a person does not make money out of their profession cannot mean that they have betrayed their profession. Probably, they are silent-practitioners in their own right.Fredjeevhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10409347631422604384noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-23497687658911514502012-05-10T21:06:46.041-07:002012-05-10T21:06:46.041-07:00hii Shakti
yaa that's right, but the oppositi...hii Shakti<br /><br />yaa that's right, but the opposition she faces is one issue, there are so many professional and highly qualified girls who willingly take permanent sabbaticals from work in the name of children and home which I think is not justifies.AShttp://www.hummingwords.blogspot.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-48355353412227534262012-05-10T21:05:16.746-07:002012-05-10T21:05:16.746-07:00hii R Ramesh,
m fyn u say wass up?hii R Ramesh,<br /><br />m fyn u say wass up?AShttp://www.hummingwords.blogspot.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-1582317976182513392012-05-09T11:23:44.670-07:002012-05-09T11:23:44.670-07:00...but the buck stops with the girl in questions. ......but the buck stops with the girl in questions. She just have to stick to her ground. Plain and simple. Of course, she'll face havoc but eventually, she'll pwn the opposition and make things rosier - not only for herself but to the overall society.Shakti_Shettyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15270297678564078294noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-85120439394774797782012-05-07T07:24:24.112-07:002012-05-07T07:24:24.112-07:00heya...how doing ? n thanks yarheya...how doing ? n thanks yarR. Rameshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00314470449340373184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-19015912210335042162012-05-04T08:47:53.420-07:002012-05-04T08:47:53.420-07:00hii Saru Singhal
yes, exceptions are always there...hii Saru Singhal<br /><br />yes, exceptions are always there but letting education esp important qualifications and wasting national wealth must be listed as one of the crimesAShttp://www.hummingwords.blogspot.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-43241248524296721242012-05-04T08:46:21.356-07:002012-05-04T08:46:21.356-07:00hii Ruprekha
exactly, leaving such qualifications...hii Ruprekha<br /><br />exactly, leaving such qualifications unused to rot with time is the worst of all sins.AShttp://www.hummingwords.blogspot.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-28643483922868705772012-05-04T08:45:11.874-07:002012-05-04T08:45:11.874-07:00hii Pink Teddy,
your point is also quite valid si...hii Pink Teddy,<br /><br />your point is also quite valid since at the age of 16 or 17, a boy or a girl hardly can decide about how will be manage his/her career. Those quitting well meaning and important jobs that include services to the society should avoid doing so esp under pressure.AShttp://www.hummingwords.blogspot.in/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-57590798685641342232012-05-03T14:56:26.154-07:002012-05-03T14:56:26.154-07:00Well, there are some like me who can't practic...Well, there are some like me who can't practice full time because they are not in their country and are happy to use this time in pursuing their hobby - writing. But, sitting home without your own wish is not acceptable.Saru Singhalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12860642404643756746noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-19032210398329429562012-05-02T12:20:13.227-07:002012-05-02T12:20:13.227-07:00Very true, agree with you. I know such a doctor, M...Very true, agree with you. I know such a doctor, MBBS,who let her studies go waste on her own. The in-laws or the husband never had anything to say in this matter. When I recently asked, she said it was her father's wish that she become a doctor. <br />:( Well, it is beyond my capacity to understand anything about that.Ruprekhahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02798091874208338723noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-13869976523300422742012-05-02T02:15:40.756-07:002012-05-02T02:15:40.756-07:00Hi AS, when we complete our 12th exam and get admi...Hi AS, when we complete our 12th exam and get admission in some college or medical or engineering we don't even know we want to do that... We study because our parents are ready to spend money in our education.. Many of us don't use their prior education because they must have discovered that it is not their interest area. And those girls who are sacrificing their career because of in-laws and not by their own will should be more strong in keeping her point of view..Meghahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05171504364485547652noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-15054964769338983972012-04-24T10:55:51.645-07:002012-04-24T10:55:51.645-07:00hii R Ramesh!
thanks a lot :)hii R Ramesh!<br /><br />thanks a lot :)Ankita https://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-11330159767489970532012-04-24T10:00:50.092-07:002012-04-24T10:00:50.092-07:00excellent, wellmeaning post yar..my dear friend, o...excellent, wellmeaning post yar..my dear friend, one of the best journalists in mumbai, quit her job after first baby...she has been housewife for a decade and now stays in dubai..hmmmm..R. Rameshhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00314470449340373184noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-73751334943806573202012-04-22T00:34:05.211-07:002012-04-22T00:34:05.211-07:00hii Destination Infinity,
Thanks for the comment!...hii Destination Infinity,<br /><br />Thanks for the comment!<br /><br />careers of both, husband and wife are equally important and a child is the responsibility of bothAnkita https://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-3833920023276887632012-04-18T01:02:50.469-07:002012-04-18T01:02:50.469-07:00I think men and women need to take turns and take ...I think men and women need to take turns and take short breaks during the initial 3-4 years immediately after a kid is born. It is at that time, that a kid needs parents most. After they get confidence that kids can handle themselves properly, they can return to their careers. Otherwise, it will be very boring at home. Taking breaks without breaking careers is a challenge, but it can definitely be done.<br /><br />Destination InfinityDestination Infinityhttp://www.destinationinfinity.org/noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-56878516821111204322012-04-15T08:42:14.805-07:002012-04-15T08:42:14.805-07:00hi Sanket,
thanks for the comment, u are very rig...hi Sanket,<br /><br />thanks for the comment, u are very right.. In most cases there is no need for a lady to sacrifice her career and education for her household.Ankita https://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7185150317618513209.post-50449646394843282832012-04-15T08:41:04.141-07:002012-04-15T08:41:04.141-07:00hii mOhan,
thanks a lot!
exactly!hii mOhan,<br /><br />thanks a lot!<br />exactly!Ankita https://www.blogger.com/profile/08423815874935620837noreply@blogger.com